Tuesday, July 3, 2012



Over the past few days I have been stopping and noticing things that I may normally walk past. In life it is easy to get busy and then only focus on what we are doing rather than being aware of the things around us. 
The universe is busy talking to us, however if we don't stop and notice it then we won't make sense of it. 


You cannot understand something if you're not conscious of it. 
Some people are able to extend their conscious back to the time when they were ten years old. Others can be conscious of their birth and have full recall of their life. This is dictated by the expansiveness of the consciousness they are creating. Every consciousness has a certain amount of space and time and therefore has its limitations. For this reason it is important to remain flexible in our ability to create consciousnesses.

What is in our in our consciousness is what we can be aware of: What is outside our consciousness is that which we are unaware of and in effect of. We say it is in our unconscious. We bring something from the unconscious to the conscious by expanding our consciousness to include it.

Spiritually, our consciousness can extend through time and space as far as we intend. It is not a physical skill, therefore it is not subject to the restrictions of the physical body or the laws of the physical universe. Every person has different levels of consciousness in different areas, depending on the information they need to gather to achieve whatever it is they've decided to do. 

When we apply consciousness, we are viewing - we are simply aware. We are not doing anything. We are not thinking or altering the situation. There is no significance or judgement. Significance of any kind distorts our reality and our perception becomes inaccurate. By applying our consciousness, we are in a space outside right and wrong, outside good and bad: A space where we simply view things as they are. This is a bird's eye view, a detached view - the natural view you have as a spirit.

The difference between consciousness and perception.
If we extend our consciousness to a specific area, we can occupy with that consciousness the exact space we choose depending on the size of the playing field we require. Once we have this consciousness, we are able to apply our perception. 
Perception isolates a particular area, directing our attention like a torch that magnifies. We become aware of something specific and use our perception to understand it in detail. 

If we need to perceive across a number of areas to play a game, we simply extend our consciousness further. If a situation calls for only limited perception, our consciousness can be reduced. The more consciousness you have access to, the more freedom you have to be selective with your perception. Importantly, the more our consciousness becomes associated with the physical, the less we can apply to the spiritual. 

Consciousness and perception work hand in hand and with meditation, we can increase our skill in using both.

The restriction of only one consciousness.
A person can restrict themselves by viewing events in their life from one consciousness. This is surprisingly common. This means that they can only see things one way; from one perspective. It starts at an early age when they begin to replace their own consciousness with the consciousness of others. If they take on board particular ways of looking at things from a parent, teacher or friends enough times, they can lose touch with their own natural perception. They can then very quickly lose trust in their own consciousness and become restricted.
To return to our own natural expansive consciousness, we need to detach from those consciousnesses we've identified with: This is done by recalling the times where we've replaced our consciousnesses with ones that are not ours. By recalling these times, our natural ability to use consciousness begins to re-emerge. When we become physically, emotionally and spiritually still during Energy Conversion Meditation, we can clearly identify the consciousnesses we have adopted, and separate from the energy that binds them to us. 
If I am aware that the consciousness I am using is not me, rather, a way of looking at things, I am on the way to spiritual detachment.

Aware of being aware.
By realising there are many consciousnesses we can create, we regain the flexibility that comes with being aware of being aware. Spiritually we are not any specific awareness, we simply create a consciousness that suits each moment. Therefore we are outside of any one way of perceiving and our awareness is greatly enhanced.

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Sunday, June 3, 2012

YES YOU CAN!!!


"CANI" stands for Constant And Never-ending Improvement. It's an acronym that Tony developed more than a decade ago and he was influenced by Dr. W. Edwards Deming. Dr. Deming is credited as one of the leaders who brought one of the first quality movements to the Japanese. His basic premise was that the secret to help the Japanese achieve world power and economic success was if every single person and organization commit to constant improvement.
The Japanese have a single word for "constant and never-ending improvement" and it's called "Kaizen." Kaizen is from the Japanese words Kai and Zen where "kai" means change and "zen" means good. Yes folks, change is good.
It is very easy to get caught up in your goals and desired end-outcomes...to the point of becoming overwhelmed. CANI offers a solution and a point of reference to focus your attention on. If all you did was improve one tiny aspect of your life every single day, you would achieve mastery in uncommon time.
This links in with many other thought teachers:
Waitley..power of 5.
Canfield...top 5
Amongst many others. 
Benefits of CANI include:
  • Creates a personal and business momentum that will be hard for your competitors to catch up with.
  • Personal satisfaction and fulfillment because it will cause you to grow personally.
  • Leads to innovation. Innovation creates leverage.
Tony Robbins once said, "We only learn our limits by going beyond them." CANI! is a principle designed to encourage you to make small incremental improvements daily...and in doing so, you will be forced to find a way to go beyond your current set of self-imposed limitations.
Which areas of your life do you want to apply the principles of CANI! Today?
o Prosperity & Financial
o Family Relationships
o Friendship Building
o Health & Fitness
o Spirituality
o Recreation & Pleasure/Joy
o Education & Career Advancement
o Public Service/Volunteering
If you define your success as a "journey" rather than an end-destination, you can take comfort in the fact that personal growth and satisfaction can come from constant and never-ending improvement (CANI!).
Igniting lives on fire


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Monday, May 28, 2012

LESSONS FROM A 3 MONTH OLD


The aim of my blogs are to challenge, inspire and motivation you gain a new perspective on certain things and to look at life from a fresh point-of-view. I have no doubt that they will be of great value in helping you pursue and achieve your dreams.

As I mentioned a while ago, our first-born son, Malachi, came into the world on the 29th of February 2012. 

From that very first day of his birth I have learnt several valuable lessons and some things I took for granted before have taken on a deeper meaning and significance. As I write this he is only 3 months old, but he has taught me so much already.


I know you’re probably wondering what a 3 month old baby can teach anyone. A lot – if you are willing to learn and you can see beyond the obvious.

One evening, when I was about to go to bed, I noticed our son, Malachi, trying to reach out to grab my jersey while he was having his bed time cuddles. . The jersey was just a few inches from him and he had his left hand stretched out towards it. He had a look of intense concentration on his face. There were other objects around which were within reach, but somehow the colours of my jumper had caught his attention.Watching him trying to get it, I had no doubt from the look on his face and the way his arm was stretched out that, at that time, stretching out for his object was the only thing on his mind.

I thought to myself “hey, he has started setting goals already!” Yes, I mean that. It may seem small, but when he started reaching for the jumper, to him it was a worthy goal. He decided that he wanted the phone. He was able to focus on it and decide on his own that stretching out was the best way to get it.
I found that fascinating. At 3 months old he was able to decide what he wanted, decide how to go about getting it and even able to focus all his attention and energy on getting it. I don’t know about you, but I think he was doing a lot better than most adults!

Over time he will find he has other means to reach out and get things. Instead of just stretching out he will be able to wiggle on his belly and get closer to the object. One day he will crawl..watch our Zippy!!!(Our Dog)

There is something to be learnt in this. When you decide to do something it is not necessary to immediately think about how to go about getting it. Sooner or later, once you start the project, you will find there are other ways to get what you wanted which you did not and could not know when you started.
Deciding what you want is always the most important step. “How” comes later and, if you ask me, is the easier part.


It did not take long for me to notice, however, that Malachi would lose interest in whatever he had been trying to get soon after getting it. Once he had it in his hands he’d suck on it for a while and then allow his attention to be drawn by something else around him.  

No sooner do you get the car you want and then you decide you want a Porsche next. 

Somehow having the object is not as motivating as striving to get it. Once one goal is accomplished, you want to reach out to the next.
I think that is healthy. In pushing ourselves to get something better we are always redefining our boundaries and pushing the bar higher and higher. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that you should not be happy with what you have or what you have achieved.
I am saying no matter what you have or what you have achieved, you should realize that you can always do better. I think also that you should try to do more, not so much for the thing itself, but for what it does to you when you set a goal and achieve it.



Motivation essay - stretch beyond your comfort zone
Every time you stretch yourself beyond your comfort zone, something about you changes. You grow. Every time you grow, you are irreversibly “stretched” to a new level of thinking and being.
Many people are living corpses today because they have stopped growing. They wonder around in life aimlessly. They could live another 10, 20 or even 50 years, but they might as well be buried today because there is nothing worthwhile they are going to do with that time. They just exist. They’re just passing time.
“I ain’t goin’ out like that.” Every year that I live I want to do something I could not do the previous year. Every year has got to be better than the previous one. Otherwise, what’s the point? That is my philosophy, and I hope you will make it yours if you haven’t already.
Motivation essay - keep Growing
Reach out – set your goal, focus on it until you achieve it and then…set another goal! The harder the better.Never stop reaching out. Never stop growing. Never stop living!


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Saturday, April 21, 2012

Getting better and better

Just been reading a great book for the second or third time.
This is an excellent book that was written early last century. Yet the concepts have timeless principles  that echo through for us today.
I heard of someone today who recently got a finance loan and they thought that they were onto a winner as they now had extra cash to spend. 
They are in fact just spiraling into a trap.  
If you want to be better off that where you are right now, then take the ideas from this book.

Seven Cures for a Lean Purse

1. Start thy purse to fattening 2. Control thy expenditure 3. Make thy gold multiply 4. Guard thy treasures from loss 5. Make of thy dwelling a profitable investment 6. Insure a future income 7. Increase thy ability to earn
The Seven Ways of Filling Your Bag
1. Start filling your bag From every 10 coins you earn, spend only nine of them. You will see how your bag starts filling quickly. You will see that you can arreange anyway with this income and you will be earning money quickly.
2. Control your expenses What we call obligatory expenses grow in proportion of our income, if we don´t do something to avoid this. Don´t confuse your desire with your needs.
3. Make your gold fructify Make your gold work for you, then its sons and the sons of this sons. Investing your gold: Loans, oportunities. Gold multiplies fast.
4. Protect your gold from any lost If you have got gold, you will be tempted to invest in any atracctive proyect. Asure your capital. Its not true romantics make a fast fortune. Ask the wise people about what they know.
5. Make your property a rental investment If you can eat grapes from your vineyard and have a nice house its inspires you to finish your duties.
6. Asure future incomes Foresee some incomes for your old age and your family. For this porpuse you can buy lands and houses.
7. Increase your hability to adquire goods More knowledge we have, more money we earn.

The Five Laws of Gold

1.Gold comes easy and in greater cuantites to the man who safes the tenth part of his income for his future and family.
2.Gold works with speed and diligence for the wise owner that finds for it a productive use.
3.Gold mantains itself under the protection of prudent persons who invests with the counsils of wise people.
4.Gold scapes from people who invest without a pourpose in places that are not familiar.
5.Gold runs away from people who force gold to imposible profits and follows the seductive counsils of impostors.

It is alot better to take one step towards what you want each day.

Igniting lives on fire

Sunday, April 8, 2012

KEEP GOING

OVER RECENT DAYS I HAVE STRUGGLED TO KEEP GOING...


But thankfully I read, and something I read reminded me of:
The going is always hard on the road to greatness. If success were easy, everyone would achieve it. 


NFL All-Pro lineman Brian Holloway recalled that when he was playing for the New England Patriots and the Los Angeles Raiders, there wasn’t a single day when he didn’t feel like giving up because the road was too tough and the sacrifices were too great. 


He didn’t quit, of course; he was willing to pay the price because he was determined to succeed. True thoroughbreds never quit. Competition only spurs them, and obstacles merely reinforce their determination to succeed. If you have not yet achieved greatness in your life, it is because you have been willing to settle for less. You may not cross the finish line first every time you try, but if you stay in the race, you will eventually prevail. 
At the moment I am reminding myself of the importance of keeping the momentum going.


Anyone can quit when the going is hard, but a thoroughbred never quits until he wins.


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Thursday, April 5, 2012

Consequences


Consider the Consequences

The mark of the superior thinker is his or her ability to accurately predict the consequences of doing or not doing something. The potential consequences of any task or activity are the key determinants of how important it really is to you and to your company. This way of evaluating the significance of a task is how you determine what your next frog really is.
Long Time Perspective
 Doctor Edward Banfield of Harvard University, after more than 50 years of research, concluded that "long time perspective" is the most accurate single predictor of upward social and economic mobility in America. Long time perspective turns out to be more important than family background, education, race, intelligence, connections or virtually any other single factor in determining your success in life and at work.
 Your attitude toward time, your "time horizon," has an enormous impact on your behavior and your choices. People who take the long view of their lives and careers always seem to make much better decisions about their time and activities than people who give very little thought to the future.
Think About Your Future
 Successful people have a clear future orientation. They think five, ten and twenty years out into the future. They analyze their choices and behaviors in the present to make sure that they are consistent with the long-term future that they desire.
 In your work, having a clear idea of what is really important to you in the long term makes it much easier for you to make better decisions about your priorities in the short term.
Determine the Consequences
 By definition, something that is important has long-term potential consequences. Something that is unimportant has few or no long-term potential consequences. Before starting on anything, you should always ask yourself, "What are the potential consequences of doing or not doing this task?"
 The clearer you are about your future intentions, the greater influence that clarity will have on what you do in the moment. With a clear long-term vision, you are much more capable of evaluating an activity in the present and to assure that it is consistent with where you truly want to end up.
Make It a Top Priority
 If there is a task or activity with large potential positive consequences, make it a top priority and get started on it immediately. If there is something that can have large potential negative consequences if it is not done quickly and well, that becomes a top priority as well. Whatever your frog is, resolve to gulp it down first thing.
Keep Motivated
 Motivation requires motive. The greater the positive potential impact that an action or behavior of yours can have on your life, once you define it clearly, the more motivated you will be to overcome procrastination and get it done quickly.
 Thinking continually about the potential consequences of your choices, decisions and behaviors is one of the very best ways to determine your true priorities in your work and personal life.
Action Exercises
 Review your list of tasks, activities and projects regularly. Continually ask yourself, “Which one project or activity, if I did it in an excellent and timely fashion, would have the greatest positive impact on my life?”
 Whatever it is that can help you the most, set it as a goal, make a plan to achieve it and go to work on your plan immediately. Remember the wonderful words of Goethe, “Just begin and the mind grows heated; continue, and the task will be completed!”

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Saturday, March 24, 2012

Wise persons are those who think twice before speaking once.


Wise persons are those who think twice before speaking once.

I have not entered a posting for a few weeks because I have been enjoying the arrival of our new baby boy Malachi.  I have enjoyed getting to know him and this has reminded me of the importance of listening before I speak.
I am no way an expert in child raising, therefore I have had to listen a lot more than I have had to speak over the past while.
This is also the greatest quality in a leader and the most valuable skill in building relationships is the ability to think before you speak. If you have a tendency to speak hastily you come to regret your actions very often at a later date, the childhood admonition to count to ten before speaking will still serve you well. When you pause — if only for a moment — to consider the consequences, you may think better of what you were about to say. And if you must speak strongly, it’s a good idea to sugarcoat the words — just in case you have to eat them later.
But more importantly, if we listen rather than speak, it is amazing what new insights we will get rather than always offering our opinion.



Its good to be back.
Remember:  Ignite the fire within.

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